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  • Who CAN You Rely On?

    One of the most vile things I have ever heard is of a girl who can’t rely on her dad. Recently a woman told me that she was attacked in her freshman year of college. It was the middle of the night. She was in her dorm room alone, until she wasn’t. And when she… Read more

  • Outman Me

    A recurring theme with my single friends is, “I just want a man who is more manly than I am.” In a culture where women have become hyper independent and capable we don’t “need” men like we used to. One example, my friend can see something and go, “I could make that” and then she… Read more

  • Mournful Howls

    There is something eerie about a howling dog. I can’t tell if it’s sorrow, or a signal, or a cry for help. Lately my dog has been sitting on the porch in the early mornings and howling. It is both comforting and scary. I love hearing noises that I can attribute to my animals because… Read more

  • Scaring People Away

    I have scared people away from being my friend. Sometimes it’s intentional, sometimes it isn’t. Sometimes it backfires and the things that I hope would scare people away only make them WANT to be my friend MORE. What I have noticed lately with a new friend of mine, is that she tends to try and… Read more

  • Nobody To See

    The best hair days happen when there’s nowhere to go. The outfits fit extra great when you have nobody to see. The skin is extra glowy when it’s just you by yourself. And that means one thing… You should do the thing, wear the outfit, take the picture/selfie, and enjoy it yourself. And if you’re… Read more

  • Testing Folks

    I have this habit that I just recently noticed. I have to “test” people. Or I have to have a several week grace period where I get to know someone and see if I’m actually comfortable with them. That is kind of a normal thing I guess, needing to adjust to people. But I have… Read more