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  • Kpop: EXO Continued… Solo Artist Edition

    Because I am just SURE that y’all are as fascinated by kpop as I am I wanted to go into the individual work of these amazingly talented dudes. (Haha, even if you aren’t interested it’s my blog/diary and I want to think about Korean Pop music today.) Suho: (Kim Jun Myeon) The leader of EXO… Read more

  • Self Care

    Thanks to the guidance of youtube personalities like Jillz and Awwlexis I am embracing the feminine this year. (This year, as in my current year of life… not 2025.) I am trying to heal my wounded energy and improve my overall relationship with womanhood. One way I am doing this is leaning into things that… Read more

  • Don’t Do Things That Make You Hate People

    Many years ago I heard a preacher say, “Don’t do things that make you hate people. If the news is filling you with animosity towards your neighbor, quit watching it.” So I did. It has been a more peaceful few years than I could have imagined. Despite bad news, despite politics, despite everything. When someone… Read more

  • Golf Cart Status

    In our little town of about 5,000 we have a new status symbol. Golf Carts. (Or little kubota tractor cart things…) People drive them around town like regular cars, parking at the gas station, zooming up and down main street. We even have folks out in the countryside where I live driving them. I think… Read more

  • Return of the Claw Clip

    Claw clips are back with a vengeance and I for one am here for it. (I guess they never really went anywhere, but these trends pop up with vigor every 20-30 years or so…) The square claw clips are my absolute favorite. They hold my hair the best. I also really like the look of… Read more

  • Restaurants Need Waiting Rooms

    The worst part about eating out with a group of 3+ people is the wait. Why? Because you sit on a bench, usually by the entrance, and stare… Stare at your phone, stare at the other people walking in, stare at the servers walking by. I hate it. I hate the awkward wait. How can… Read more