Thanks to the guidance of youtube personalities like Jillz and Awwlexis I am embracing the feminine this year. (This year, as in my current year of life… not 2025.)
I am trying to heal my wounded energy and improve my overall relationship with womanhood.
One way I am doing this is leaning into things that I am naturally drawn to, like rest.
I am also pampering myself (in a cost effective way). The most fun ways I have been embracing femininity are…
- Real Pajamas
- Cozy slippers
- Nail care
This year I bought myself a satin robe, a couple pajama sets, fuzzy slippers that are ONLY for wearing inside the house, and I have been doing my nails every week.
Even as I type I am admiring my nails. I love how pretty they are! It makes my hands look so much more ladylike, and I like it.
For years I didn’t paint my nails because they always ended up brittle and damaged, or the polish wouldn’t last more than a day or two. Then I learned about gel nails, then I learned about semi cured gel nail strips, then I learned how to better DO my nails. (I will make a different post about nails later.)
The point is, doing simple things like wearing pretty pajamas or having pretty nails can just make your overall outlook on life better.
Find what brings you comfort and joy and do it! You got this!
Redheaded Jill 
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